when ambivalence threatens to wreck your love

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"Every fundamental behavior patterning in Universe always and only coexists with a complimentary but non-mirror-imaged patterning"

"Tensegrity is a design strategy that builds on the complementarity of tension and compression. Bucky[Buckminster Fuller] observed that while tension and compression always coexist (pulling on a rope will cause its length to increase in response to tension while its cross-section (width) compresses at the same time. He further observed that Nature favors designs that emphasize tension and downplays compression ("pulling vs. pushing"). "